As you get closer to fulfilling your dreams, don’t be surprised if doubt and fear surface. The number one way we sabotage our dreams is by saying things like, "But, what if?" and imagining the worst. But, what if I . . . fail, succeed, say or do the wrong thing, don’t make enough money?

With this thinking, as you move toward your dream, you’ll also move toward your fears and worst nightmares. With too much to risk, most of us give up or never even begin. Here are six ways to overcome fear:

1. If you feel indecisive, this can help. Draw a line across the center of a piece of paper. On the top, write your dream in as much detail as possible. On the bottom, write out your reality (about this dream) including your fears, doubts and "but, what ifs".

Are you more committed to your dream or to your fear?

Two things will cause you to be more committed to your fear. The first is if you don’t have a clearly defined dream. The second is if you project your worst fears into your dream, you’ll choose reality because it’s safer. But when fear is placed in its proper place, as part of reality, it's easier to be more committed to your vision and fear simply becomes something to manage.

2. As you connect to your dreams, you’ll often run into the voice of your "Doubter." We might ignore or obsess over this because it tells us everything that might go wrong. Left unattended, this voice can be disruptive. But turn the Doubter down and it becomes the voice of the "Realist," who primarily wants to know what you are planning, usually related to time and money issues. Early on, you may not have all the details figured out, which is why going to strategy too soon can actually hinder or limit your dream. Interview your Doubter and be curious. Capture its needs, insights and wisdom.

3. Your Doubter can provide a list of obstacles based on its fears and concerns. The Dream Coach rule is, wherever there’s an obstacle; design a strategy to manage it. Make a list of your obstacles and identify which ones are negative self-perceptions or beliefs and which ones require strategies. The first step in managing fear is to identify exactly what you are afraid if. Just saying, "I’m afraid," can be a whitewash and keep you stuck. Identify what you fear.

4. Beliefs are never neutral. They either move you forward or hold you back, but you choose what to believe. The way to move from limiting beliefs that hold you back to empowering beliefs that move you forward is through willingness, courage and practice. Be willing to believe in yourself and your dreams and have the courage to act on what you believe. Develop this as part of your identity by practicing this behavior continuously until it becomes true.

5. Are you aware of what typically stops you? For most of us, it’s something we hate, we’re not good at, or that we have no idea how to tackle. It can be frightening and when that task is essential to the success of your venture, it could be your demise. Don’t allow one need or issue to destroy your dream.

If your dream is to write a book but you can’t type, this doesn’t have to stop you. Learn a new skill or hire someone. If you can’t afford that, explore bartering. Get creative and get going. The time you waste worrying would best be used by seeking guidance and finding answers.

6. Overcome fear and other obstacles (even time and money issues) by enrolling others into your vision. Master this skill and you’ll accomplish bigger dreams with less effort. Learn to talk to anyone, anytime and anyplace about their dreams in a way where they feel inspired. Ask what their personal or professional dreams are and explore. Build an arsenal of people that you can reach out to in a pinch. Develop a robust database of brilliant resources that you can access at any given moment.

I hope these are helpful to everyone to overcome fear.
Thank you mydreamcircle

When you born in the world, you are the existed in the world. When you are; you are physically counted; and when you are not you virtually counted. But anyway you are counted in the world by your beloved, family, relatives, friends, society, nation and world. It depends on you, how to make it to be counted.

You are not only joy and not only sorrow; you are the union of both. The both are always stand before you but the chosen is yours; who will force; who will request; who will plead and who will love but the chosen is yours. I know always, what the heart tells mind does; but we should try to do, what the mind tells.

The world has give the birth precious souls and sin souls also. Both are remembered; we always feel the virtual existence of both. Some direct us towards some where and another one directs us towards another where. We are always confused and ask what's the real path of life; what's the real existence of the world. Don't listen outside; listen inside you will listen some sounds and it will direct you, it will show your path. If you still are confused ask with your knowledge; with your experience; with lives of precious souls; they will direct you the path, Close your eyes and go on...

I am also feel like this away and I have walked a long way of years of life; where I have reached, what i have achieved; I don't know. I am following my anticipation and going, going till the life will not ask to take rest; my soul will not ask me you have not enough energy to carry me. And it depends on the world how will they count my existence physically and virtually. I am doing my duty; what types of the fruits I will get, I heartily accept because they are due to me.

I will be glad if anyone accept me; also I will be glad anyone will not accept me. The individual has individual perception, individual feeling; that shows difference from one another. The life's target is always same but paths are difference; how do you want to reach there that depend on you.

We have listened in the world, there is doing action for the peace. But, have you heard such countries also there are fighting, killing, striking and agitation for the peace in continue for long time. This is the misfortune of developing world. They have to fight for the peace. This is happened due to only few groups; who do not want to let us leave as it but they want to bring peace. But the misfortune of the peace will not leave them and stand up with weapons; they commit them to bring peace by their weapons. They render the peace with hot bullet on the heart of their sons, on the head of their brothers, on the stomach their husbands and bring their daughters and sister-in-laws on the road for the peace.

Nepal becomes like this country in the world which are fighting for the peace. The striking and agitation are starting from last 12 years and it’s continuing with killing many lives for the peace. But no one knows, what the name is peace. Just this week, 22nd March, 2007 has passed devoting peace to 28 people. Really they got the peace; I don’t know how long this peace action is going and devoting peace to the people.

The world knows Nepal is renowned as peaceful country, Buddha born country; it is representative of peace but now what it becomes. The world knows Nepal as the natural beautiful country, country of Himalayans, country of Everest, Switzerland of Asia so and so. All Nepalese desire to listen these again. We are very near of it. We always believe after every night, there is morning. Some signs seem in Nepal of the morning but how the leaders of Nepal will steer it, we have to see. All Nepalese are sitting with hope of the morning.

One day, my just married friend complained me about his wife. I am surprised his wife is educated, beautiful and good natured. As I know she has all characters that one girl should have. I became anxious, retained to explain why? His answer was; she has never shows her happiness seeing me at home after returning from my office. He retuned from office with more eagerness to see wife and express many things; but he did not see any expression on her face and; all things he forgot and became bore and sit down with just seeing TV. And then his wife became busy in her works. Like this way they spent 1 month. He has decided internally that her wife does not love her and not happy with marrying him. So sad!!

I want to evince the woman as the ocean. Have you ever seen the ocean from upper part how it is quit, it seems like there is nothing. But the inside of the ocean there is myriad movement. There is need the eye who can infer; who can understand her real emotion. The simple eye cannot infer the heart of the women. The nature has developed the man and woman; only two caste in the world for love and so that the world will long run.

I have found various types of the natures of woman; one is silent and can not express her real feeling but inside is enormous movement like the ocean and another one can express her feeling easily. The man who able to realize the real feeling of the woman has the authority to be part of the woman otherwise; the nature will be vicious with him and make the life hell of him and her. So I have reiterated, this is not authority to make her life misery. It is not always your wife will express her feeling to you; try to express your feeling first then see how the ocean become confined to your heart. I always show; man lacks here and repents whole life.

Only that man can anticipate woman who conceive the world; who can see only a rose between lots of thorns.

The world is full of joys, sorrow, happy, unhappy, light and dark; it depends on your eyes what to see. We always blame world, it is like this so we have become like this. It is hellish blame. The world never gives anything to you; you pick it up. That’s the result of your life, your future and your career. If you will put the seed of the neem how will you expect the mango? You know the land is capable to give both but you put the neem. Any decision is yours; any achievement is also yours and any failure is also yours. No one changes yours own fruits of struggle.

We always dream to become virtuous man but we should see our inside how much we are, what the lacks to become are only then we have authority to dream. Otherwise you are hurting your heart. Please don’t look at other how he or she is bad. Please look at other how he or she is good. Then you will enjoy, you will love and you will understand the world.

It is a great race between man and man (man include both genders). Anyone always tries to become first but never anyone become first. If he/she will be the first in one, I assure he will lose another type of race. The earth is the race ground we are like a horse, running and running to be first but no one will become first. The man lives in mirage that he will catch the sky. But I never listen no one catch the sky although man can reach on the moon but it has also become kind of race ground (not for research) who become first to reach the moon. And now all are struggling who will reach first the mars. We born and have taught, son/daughter: life is the race you should become first only then this is your achievement will be count. Due to this race all world has remained last and we left it behind now everyone are feeling they are leading world. But this is not true. From a long time, the world is like this in its place and assisting us to survive. Our father/mother, grandfather/grandmother their father/mother and their also are/were lived in this world But now the man is trying who become first and who become strong in the world. I don’t know their gallant will destroy this history; this world.

Yesterday, I woke up and heard the news of Nepal 27 mans were killed. And today, wake up some other places were killed. I am worried, one day it will come like this I can’t wake up and the news is: world is destroyed.

Although we are more conscious but only one stick of fire is enough to destroy the forest. So I always request to be aware about the world, it is not require who will be the first, who will win the race, who will win the game, we should win only ourselves, own our heart. Then you will surely win the world.

Time never stop for man. Man should walk with time. Who can understand the time’s value; are recognized by the time. The time is being intimate with that man. The live of the human is for the body of the human. So think until when our lives are in the body and when it’s departed from the body, then your live, your soul will ask you, what you have left in the world, if may be you have answer my body then always you are wrong. Your body was destroyed and no one can see and never can be seen. Then what you have left in the world. So friends, I would like to ask you, ask yourself what you will leave in the world. Think now time is not waiting for you. It is going far and far; you will never catch it when you don’t understand its value on time.

Let’s join hands one by one make a team, make a nation, make a world all thing is achievable, for that only require our mind and soul. If it tell, you are human you can do, then think no one can stop you, you will run and run, you will not realize when you become successful; when you build society, nation and world. And your live (soul) become happy and becomes an eminent soul for world.

I am seeking my identity in the crowd of world. The world is full of joy and sorrow. I know joy is few and rear, the sorrow is more and wide. If you search joy, you will not find but if you will search sorrow you will find easily. So the sorrow is my friend, who use to live with sorrow is the happiest man in the world. If you will ask billionaire, you want more money surely he/she will say yes more. Means he will never satisfy. I think a satisfaction is big glad and big happiness. I don't know what bring joy and sorrow but I needn't struggle hard to become sorrow. What a good life. You don’t need more struggle but you will get easily. So I suggest try to make friend with sorrow how will you feel. You feel like a bird, you feel like a wind, blowing here and there, and you will enjoy very much of your life.

This photo is the "Pultizer prize" winning phto take in 1994 during the Sudan Famine. The picture depicts a famine stricken child crawling towards an United nations food camp, located a kilometer away.

The vulture is waiting for the child to die so that it can eat it This picture shocked whole world. No one knows what happened to the child, including the photographer kevin Carter who left the place as soon as the photograph was taken.

Three months later he committed suicide due to depression

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This wouldn't fulfill a wish; nor deleting it will cause any misfortune; but its our moral duty to be concerned...towards humanity.

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From Kevin Carter's diary ,

Dear God, I promise I will never waste my food no matter how bad it can taste and how full I may be. I pray that He will protect this little boy, guide and deliver him away from his misery. I pray that we will be more sensitive towards the world around us and not be blinded by our own selfish nature and interests.
I hope this picture will always serve as a reminder to us that how fortunate we are and that we must never ever take things for granted. Please don't break.. Keep on forwarding to our friends On this good day.. Let's make a prayer for the suffering in anywhere any place around the globe and send this friendly reminder to others; think & look at this...when you complain about your food and the food we waste daily.........