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Mysterious and unpredictable future!

The life is mysterious and unpredictable future. If the result which initially can be predicted, is there any curiosity, is there any eagerness, and is there any anxious? So all world lives in this incertitude; the future is mine.

Starting computer career from 19 years old, Bill Gates never dreamed, one day he will be number one richest person of the world.
Napoleon had dreamed to rule all over the world and he lived in sealed future. Hitler had also same concept the life is always same and all would accept his autocracy, monopoly and barbarous crime. But who knows he had to dead like that way.

I must say one thing whatever may be result of life is due to your own labor, your own laziness, your own struggle, your own struggle and at last from luck and sealed future.

If everything of life is predictable, what is the romance of the life; what is the value of life. It is like a suspense movie, you already know what the suspense is; but you must have to come across.

April 20, 2007 | 3:45 AM Comments  3 comments

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Overcome fear, make dream true

As you get closer to fulfilling your dreams, don’t be surprised if doubt and fear surface. The number one way we sabotage our dreams is by saying things like, "But, what if?" and imagining the worst. But, what if I . . . fail, succeed, say or do the wrong thing, don’t make enough money?

With this thinking, as you move toward your dream, you’ll also move toward your fears and worst nightmares. With too much to risk, most of us give up or never even begin. Here are six ways to overcome fear:

1. If you feel indecisive, this can help. Draw a line across the center of a piece of paper. On the top, write your dream in as much detail as possible. On the bottom, write out your reality (about this dream) including your fears, doubts and "but, what ifs".

Are you more committed to your dream or to your fear?

Two things will cause you to be more committed to your fear. The first is if you don’t have a clearly defined dream. The second is if you project your worst fears into your dream, you’ll choose reality because it’s safer. But when fear is placed in its proper place, as part of reality, it's easier to be more committed to your vision and fear simply becomes something to manage.

2. As you connect to your dreams, you’ll often run into the voice of your "Doubter." We might ignore or obsess over this because it tells us everything that might go wrong. Left unattended, this voice can be disruptive. But turn the Doubter down and it becomes the voice of the "Realist," who primarily wants to know what you are planning, usually related to time and money issues. Early on, you may not have all the details figured out, which is why going to strategy too soon can actually hinder or limit your dream. Interview your Doubter and be curious. Capture its needs, insights and wisdom.

3. Your Doubter can provide a list of obstacles based on its fears and concerns. The Dream Coach rule is, wherever there’s an obstacle; design a strategy to manage it. Make a list of your obstacles and identify which ones are negative self-perceptions or beliefs and which ones require strategies. The first step in managing fear is to identify exactly what you are afraid if. Just saying, "I’m afraid," can be a whitewash and keep you stuck. Identify what you fear.

4. Beliefs are never neutral. They either move you forward or hold you back, but you choose what to believe. The way to move from limiting beliefs that hold you back to empowering beliefs that move you forward is through willingness, courage and practice. Be willing to believe in yourself and your dreams and have the courage to act on what you believe. Develop this as part of your identity by practicing this behavior continuously until it becomes true.

5. Are you aware of what typically stops you? For most of us, it’s something we hate, we’re not good at, or that we have no idea how to tackle. It can be frightening and when that task is essential to the success of your venture, it could be your demise. Don’t allow one need or issue to destroy your dream.

If your dream is to write a book but you can’t type, this doesn’t have to stop you. Learn a new skill or hire someone. If you can’t afford that, explore bartering. Get creative and get going. The time you waste worrying would best be used by seeking guidance and finding answers.

6. Overcome fear and other obstacles (even time and money issues) by enrolling others into your vision. Master this skill and you’ll accomplish bigger dreams with less effort. Learn to talk to anyone, anytime and anyplace about their dreams in a way where they feel inspired. Ask what their personal or professional dreams are and explore. Build an arsenal of people that you can reach out to in a pinch. Develop a robust database of brilliant resources that you can access at any given moment.

I hope these are helpful to everyone to overcome fear.
Thank you mydreamcircle

April 12, 2007 | 10:13 PM Comments  3 comments

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To those friends who are in my heart.

My dearest friend who encourages, appreciates, comments to him.

Dear Friend

I am heartily thank you for reading, encouraging and commenting on my struggling career of writing in English. It can do only that who has put me in heart. I become glad from your suggestions, appreciation and comments.

Dear, some sentences are chosen in some moods and some are in other moods that are the main feedback of learning man. So the flow of the sentences can’t match. But practice makes man perfect. So I want to express my feeling through dead words; entering live into them.

My friend, you have commented why you show more pessimistic in some article that is my support to them to stand in the world for success, it is not only time of optimistic; it is the time of pessimistic also; if he has committed for betterment.

And why I put the sentence “Choose rose among the many thorns” coz the story is husband and wife; some husband always sees the thorns surrounding with her wife. They like more to other than wife for them this pinch. He has already chosen a rose among many roses but now he sees the thorns beside the rose in wife.

My friend, to Bath in ONSEN is the life of Japan is totally different to South-Asian people may be some other countries also. You have to bath totally naked with others. But it is very enjoyable and very healthy bath. I had ever been tried. That was my first so I had bravely opened all my clothes before all the known and unknown people.

My dearest, I hope now you have understood my feeling on the articles.

Thank you
Dabal


April 5, 2007 | 2:04 AM Comments  0 comments

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That depends on you!

When you born in the world, you are the existed in the world. When you are; you are physically counted; and when you are not you virtually counted. But anyway you are counted in the world by your beloved, family, relatives, friends, society, nation and world. It depends on you, how to make it to be counted.

You are not only joy and not only sorrow; you are the union of both. The both are always stand before you but the chosen is yours; who will force; who will request; who will plead and who will love but the chosen is yours. I know always, what the heart tells mind does; but we should try to do, what the mind tells.

The world has give the birth precious souls and sin souls also. Both are remembered; we always feel the virtual existence of both. Some direct us towards some where and another one directs us towards another where. We are always confused and ask what's the real path of life; what's the real existence of the world. Don't listen outside; listen inside you will listen some sounds and it will direct you, it will show your path. If you still are confused ask with your knowledge; with your experience; with lives of precious souls; they will direct you the path, Close your eyes and go on...

I am also feel like this away and I have walked a long way of years of life; where I have reached, what i have achieved; I don't know. I am following my anticipation and going, going till the life will not ask to take rest; my soul will not ask me you have not enough energy to carry me. And it depends on the world how will they count my existence physically and virtually. I am doing my duty; what types of the fruits I will get, I heartily accept because they are due to me.

I will be glad if anyone accept me; also I will be glad anyone will not accept me. The individual has individual perception, individual feeling; that shows difference from one another. The life's target is always same but paths are difference; how do you want to reach there that depend on you.

April 1, 2007 | 1:42 AM Comments  0 comments

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